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you're always trying to impress him

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you but he always does anyway

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and then you feel bad

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you're always trying to impress him

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impress him impress him

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impress them

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impress if a person impresses you you

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feel admiration for him

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well this is sashaying about trying to

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impress him it won't work

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that's impressive I'm impressed I was

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already impressed by you

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mean

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you're always trying you're always

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trying to

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you soon

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you're always trying to

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you

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you walk on eggshells

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you walk on eggshells

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you walk on eggshells

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eggshells thank you walk on eggshells

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to be very careful about what you say or

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do to someone because they are easily

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upset or offended

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work on eggshells and I'm walking on

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eggshells in my own home

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if you've been married for 16 years and

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you still walk on eggshells around him

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I don't need everyone walking on

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eggshells around me

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why does it work on actuals

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you

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so that

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criticize PP

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nobody always does anyway anyway anyway

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anyway despite something even so yeah

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he didn't get an invitation but he came

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anyway

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nobody always does anyway

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nobody always does anyway

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s

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so true

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don't criticize so here it means even

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though you're careful about your words

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to him he still criticize you and then

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you feel bad

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feel bad

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feel bad

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Continental feel bad foreign

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Andy I'm sorry about your birthday it

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just went out of my head I feel bad

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I did not see it coming I thought she

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would fail here

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I feel bad

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you're always trying to impress him

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because they're trying to impress

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trying to impress

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trying to impress

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he was trying to impress you

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trying to impress you

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homie impress you him do impress him

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you're always trying to impress him

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you're always trying to impress him

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you

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then criticize

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foreign

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you but he always does anyway

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but

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yes always

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videos does anyway

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nobody always does anyway

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nobody always does anyway and then you

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feel bad

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and then you

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um

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and then you feel bad

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and then you feel bad

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and then you feel bad

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you're always trying to impress him

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you walk on eggshells so that he doesn't

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criticize you but he always does anyway

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and then you feel bad

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in scene one we learned that the guy

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worked on eggshells around the person

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because he didn't want to upset that

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person

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how will native speakers talk about this

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situation

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let's move on to scene two

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things because

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she's worried about how I'll react so

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you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things because

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she's worried about how I'll react

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because she's worried about how I'll

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react

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because she's worried about how I'll

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react

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she's worried about how I'll react be

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worried about something then she how

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I'll react to a be worried about the

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being root react to something to change

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or behave in a particular way as a

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result of or in response to something

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how I'll

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reacting

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will react

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let's just talk about bullying in

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general and see how she reacts

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how will she react don't know

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings so you're

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saying

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so you're saying

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so you're saying

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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spare my feelings

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to spare my feelings

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Spirit my feelings

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spare one's feelings

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to be careful not to do or say anything

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that might upset somebody

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oh that's so sweet you're lying to spare

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your daddy's feelings

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I was trying to spare your feelings

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foreign

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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is

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things because

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she's worried about how I'll react

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because

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things

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worried about

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it

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worried about how are you true because

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because it will hold me and far she is

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because she's because she's worried

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about

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because she's worried about it

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things because

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she's worried about how I'll react

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things because

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she's worried about how I'll react

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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everyone walks posture walks on liandu

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells

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spare trip

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spare spare two Rudolph

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feelings feelings

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just spare my feelings

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just spare my feelings

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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so you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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sometimes Amy doesn't do things because

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she's worried about how I'll react so

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you're saying everyone walks on

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eggshells to spare my feelings

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in scene 2 we learned that we walked on

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eggshells around somebody to spare his

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feelings so if we want this person to

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know the truth how can we tell them

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let's find it out in scene three

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now no sugar coating my

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sister here seems to think you all have

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to walk on eggshells around me eggshells

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you can't tell me things for fear of how

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I will react

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now

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I'm gonna be honest with me to be honest

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with me

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be honest with somebody the morning

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now

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I'd like somebody to do something

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right now

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no sugar coating

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no sugar coating

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no sugar coating

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no sugar coating Sugar Code

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sugar coat something to do something

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that makes a non-pleasant situation seem

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less unpleasant

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that kind of sugar coat it is it's gonna

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be stressful

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and why don't you tell her the truth

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this time he kind of sugar coated last

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time around

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my sister here seems to think you all

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have to walk on eggshells around me

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my sister here seems to think you all

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have to

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my sister here seems to think you all

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have to seems to think

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you all have to do

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you can't tell me things for fear of how

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I will react

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for fear of how I will react

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for fear of how I will react

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for fear of how I will react

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how I'll react is

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something or for fear that to avoid the

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danger of something happening

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how I'll react sure for fear of the Nero

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now

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videos

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like everyone

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I would like everyone

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I would like everyone

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I would like everyone

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to be honest with me

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um

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you all have to walk on eggshells around

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me eggshells you all have to walk on

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you all have to walk on

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honest Cato

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move it

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honest honest with Jimmy engine

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to be honest with me

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now

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no sugar coating

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um

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sugar coating

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no sugar coating

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no sugar coating

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my sister here seems to think you all

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have to walk on eggshells around me

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my sister here seems to think you all

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have to walk on eggshells around me

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my sister here seems to think you all

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have to walk on eggshells around me

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you can't tell me things for fear of how

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I will react

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thank you

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foreign

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you can't tell me things for fear of how

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I will react

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you can't tell me things for fear of how

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I will react

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I would like everyone to be honest with

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me please right now no sugar coating my

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sister here seems to think you all have

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to walk on eggshells around me eggshells

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you can't tell me things for fear of how

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I will react

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in scene one a guy

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around a person because he doesn't want

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to upset that person

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works on eggshells

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if our friends are very sensitive we

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walk on eggshells to

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spare their feelings

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if we are honest with them we're worried

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about

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how they'll react

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so when we tell them some distressing

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news we tend to

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sugarcoat it

Walking on Eggshells: Navigating Relationships with Sensitivity

In real life, we often find ourselves "walking on eggshells" around certain individuals, trying to avoid conflict or hurt feelings. This phenomenon can create a delicate dynamic that impacts communication and emotional well-being.

Understanding the Dynamics of Walking on Eggshells

Walking on eggshells involves treading carefully in conversations or actions to prevent upsetting someone easily offended or critical. Despite our best efforts, the fear of criticism lingers, leading to a cycle of attempting to impress and feeling inadequate.

Scene One: The Uncomfortable Dance of Impressing Others

In the first scene, we observe a person constantly striving to impress someone, only to face relentless criticism. This leads to a cycle of feeling bad and further attempts to win approval. Despite walking on eggshells, criticism persists, leaving the individual feeling insecure and anxious.

Scene Two: Navigating Sensitive Feelings with Care

In the second scene, we learn how individuals sometimes refrain from certain actions to avoid negative reactions from others. This cautious approach stems from a desire to spare someone's feelings and prevent conflict. The fear of triggering a negative response becomes a barrier to open and honest communication.

Scene Three: The Call for Authenticity and Honest Communication

Lastly, scene three highlights the importance of transparent and honest communication in relationships. Requesting others to speak truthfully without sugarcoating interactions signifies a desire for genuine connections, free from underlying tensions or hidden truths.

Embracing Authenticity in Relationships

As we navigate relationships, it's essential to foster an environment where individuals can express themselves openly without the need to walk on eggshells. Embracing authenticity and vulnerability paves the way for deeper connections and meaningful interactions.

So, let's strive to create spaces where honesty and understanding prevail, eliminating the need for constant tiptoeing around sensitive topics. By fostering open communication and mutual respect, we can break free from the constraints of walking on eggshells and cultivate relationships built on trust and authenticity. Let’s embrace authenticity and create bonds that thrive on genuine connections and honest conversations.