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all right I'm kind of making this video

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outside today I thought it would be a

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nice change I titled it how to get the

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woman that you want to desire only you

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and nobody else I think that that's a

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really powerful title how to get the

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woman that you want to desire you and

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nobody else because that's really what

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most guys want um most guys want the

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woman that they want to also desire

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them and I'm I'm going to give you the

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most elaborate in-depth answer that

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anybody can give you the whole morning I

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drafted this marker board specifically

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for you I did this for you I did this so

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you can get ahead in life and those of

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you who are waiting and willing to stick

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to the end of the presentation you will

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be rewarded because you actually have a

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longer attention span so hear me out

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this is going to help impact your life

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at the deepest level so there is only

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one way okay there's only one way to do

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this there's only one way to master this

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there's only one way to get ahead and

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I'm about to show you okay there is only

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one way what you need to do is you need

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to find a woman who likes you and Ador

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you at a core level what's a core level

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that means just who you are your

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identity how you show up in this world

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who you are at your core she likes you

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and she adores you on a core level well

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what does that

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mean meaning who you are as a man you

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just do it for her without even trying

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just your natural presence you just do

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it for her there's something about you

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she will be around you and you will

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notice she naturally will just want to

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be by your side she will naturally want

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to start kissing you she will naturally

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want to start talking to you she will

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just sit right beside you and she's very

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happy just because you are right by her

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that's the type of woman that you need

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to find is one who just likes you okay

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meaning who you are as a man you just do

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it for her without even trying so that

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means your presence your purpose and

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your masculine energy what is happening

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that means everything is in a perfect

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flow and Harmony because she likes you

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for you this right here is a statement

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that not a lot of guys like to hear

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because this is a cliche saying that a

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lot of times can lead you into a bad

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relationship because of bad false

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beliefs but let me explain I'm going to

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clear all this up when you operate like

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this okay your presence your purpose and

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your masculine energy and everything is

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in a perfect flow and a perfect harmony

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she likes you for you at your core

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meaning who you are meaning you do not

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have to put on a false act you do not

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have to put on a false Persona she likes

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you at your core level now this is very

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different from the cliche saying oh I

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just want to find a woman who likes me

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for me the reason why this cliche saying

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gets a bad reputation a lot of times the

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saying of oh I just want to find a woman

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who likes me for me is because it

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assumes this dynamic that a man can

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basically just show up in virtually no

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areas in his life essentially be lazy

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and still hope to achieve some kind of

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Desire if you want the woman okay that

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you want to also like you you are going

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to have to know who you are on a core

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level okay and that's going to probably

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take years of development because it

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takes time to become a man so this is

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what I want you to do okay I want you to

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spend as close to 100% of your time on

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on yourself as possible I'm going to say

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that one more time spend as close to

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100% of your time on yourself as

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possible and only you you spend as close

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to 100% of your time as you can on only

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you so that way over the course of the

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next 5 to 10 years you become very hard

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to replace okay because of who you

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became you need to become a man who's

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very hard to replace and here's what

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happens when you do this you are going

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to start to see

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that on a core level there is only one

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of you okay you are unique there is

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literally only one of you even me Casey

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Xander there is only one of me there is

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no replica I am unique okay there is

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only one of you you are unique that

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means you will see that you will have

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your own unique personality you will

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have your own unique Aura and you will

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have your own unique Vibe and lifestyle

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that you've created Because of Who You

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Are I need you to spend the next five to

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10 years understanding who you are

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developing who you are so that way

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you're very hard to replace so then when

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you meet the woman that you meet this is

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what most men have to understand she

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either likes you or she doesn't when I

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meet a woman she is going to either like

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me or she

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won't the more you try to focus on oh

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was this sentence correct did I do this

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correct was that correct you're missing

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the whole point a woman falls in love

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with the man at his core his core level

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his core identity of who he is then when

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you meet the woman she either likes you

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or she doesn't well what does that mean

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that means when you meet a woman the

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ones who really like you they like you

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on a core level because you're not

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putting on a front you're not putting on

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an act you're not putting on a Persona

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so moving your attention to this column

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what you have to understand is that

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women want different things out of their

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relationships at different points in

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their life and this is something that is

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out of your control she is going to want

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who she wants which means you need to

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spend as close to 100% of your time as

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possible becoming who you need to be

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okay timing is everything women want

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different things at different points in

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their life so never ever ever ever ever

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under any circumstances ever try to

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create chemistry never try to create

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chemistry that isn't there never try to

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create something out of a situation when

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you can tell she doesn't have interest

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don't try to do this because you are

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going to look like you don't have

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options and you don't know who you are

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women will choose the man who best fits

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what they want at that time in their

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life women will choose the man who best

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fits what they want at that time and

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here's what you have to know women's

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emotions also change when I say timing

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is everything that means when you meet

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her either there will be alignment or

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there isn't and if there isn't that's

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okay because if you've spent the past 5

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to 10 years becoming who you want to be

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okay and this is independent of

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Attraction this is independent of a

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relationship this is independent of

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anything that has to do with dating

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women this is just spending the 5 to 10

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years becoming who you would like to be

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so you look in the mirror and you like

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yourself and you like who you've became

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and you like who you are timing is

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everything and when you meet that woman

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she either likes who you are and you

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represent that masculine ideal that she

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is looking for or you don't and that's

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okay so tactics won't work okay you

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either represent the masculine ideal

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that she's looking for at that time in

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her life or you won't and that's okay

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here's what I can tell you you cannot

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control timing okay you cannot control

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timing instead all you can control is

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where you put your time as a man each

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day as you develop who you are and who

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you want to be what I'm trying to get

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you to do in this video is understand

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who you are at a core level be okay with

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who you are at a core level and spend as

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close to 100% of your time as you can

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developing yourself on that core poor

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level because that is who you are called

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to be if you have done all these things

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as a man that I've just described okay

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if you've done all these things as a man

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that I have just described okay your

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attitude will start to become this right

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here your attitude will start to become

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okay you are going to have to earn me

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you're going to have to earn me this is

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something that not a lot of women often

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times do because most men are so ready

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and willing to not only commit they're

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ready and willing to have someone in

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their life because they don't have a

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life that's amazing as is without

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anybody in it okay so once you start to

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develop like this your attitude needs to

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start to shift into okay you're going to

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have to earn me but I don't even

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necessarily know if I want to say it

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needs to be okay that your attitude is

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basically okay you're going to have to

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earn me I think it will just naturally

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happen you will naturally see that you

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will operate differently because of who

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you are okay so you will never get to

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this point in life with this attitude

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that basically says you need to earn me

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unless you have been putting in the work

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to develop your internal sense of

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selfworth and here's the thing your

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internal sense of self-worth is going to

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look very different from mine and that's

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okay see that is part of being unique

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what I have done in my life is I have

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obviously pursued Fitness I have

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obviously pursued building this channel

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I have obviously pursued speaking and I

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have obviously pursued

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who I am in my life on a core level your

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life is probably going to look

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completely different than mine and

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that's okay where your interests are is

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where you need to put your time because

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that's where you're going to shine and

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that's where you're going to develop

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every day your mind and body knows if

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you have been maximizing yourself or if

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you have been lazy I will say that one

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more time every day your mind and your

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body will know if you have been

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maximizing yourself or if you have

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became lazy you do not want to be lazy

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you want to be active and in motion this

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is how you represent the masculine ideal

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active in motion

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doing you are doing something you are

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building what that means is you got to

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get to the point where you look in the

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mirror and love what you see and you

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love who you are okay so the final point

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I'm going to make is this you know who

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you are and what your god-given purpose

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is and you do not ever change that or

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try to be someone that you're not this

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is the whole point when you live this

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way you get to a point in life where you

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know who you are you know where you're

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going you know what your god-given

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purpose is and you do not change that or

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try to be someone that you're not that

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is the type of man that she wants to see

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a man with a rock solid core identity

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now she goes wow look at that I can't

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change him wow look at that he knows

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himself wow look at that he knows where

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he's going in life okay he must be

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stronger than the rest of the men who

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instantly are ready and willing to

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change just to be with me this is what

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she sees so your lack of effort to build

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the relationship and maximum effort to

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build you allows her to desire to build

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the relationship in the first place and

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this is what most men don't understand

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the timing is either there or it's not

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this is how to get the woman that you

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want to desire only you and nobody else

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if you like this video I encourage you

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to do one thing and one thing only you

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need a community of men who think the

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same way you need a community of men who

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are not only learning understanding and

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mastering the language of women but you

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want to be surrounded by like-minded

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individuals who also have purpose and

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direction in their life and are growing

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every single day what I have created was

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my very own community and inside of this

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community I'm watching these guys grow

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in so many different areas in their life

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almost every single day I'm constant

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seeing new posts and on top of that what

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I'm actually looking at is I'm looking

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at guys who are supporting each other

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and I know deep down that I have built

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something that gives you the ability to

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not only maximize your dating life but

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it gives you the best chances of having

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a rock solid process that you can

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actually copy paste into your dating

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life and go go and use it I created all

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of this for you when you check that out

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you're going to see so many other guys

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getting results too so be sure to join

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us inside of that because my hopes is is

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when you come into that process that I

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created it changes your life on so many

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different positive levels that you're

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actually looking for that is why I made

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How to Find True Connection with the Woman You Desire

In his compelling outdoor video, the dating expert delves into the core concept of finding a woman who genuinely desires you for who you are. The key lies in developing your authentic self and focusing on self-improvement to become irreplaceable in her eyes. By emphasizing the importance of core identity and self-worth, he unveils the ultimate secret to attracting the woman you truly desire.

Understanding the Core Concept: Authenticity and Self-Worth

The fundamental principle presented is that a woman must like and adore you at a core level, appreciating your natural presence and identity without any pretense. This entails dedicating time and effort to self-discovery and personal development over the span of several years. By immersing yourself in the journey of self-improvement, you cultivate a unique personality, aura, and lifestyle that set you apart as an individual.

The Importance of Timing and Authenticity in Relationships

The speaker highlights the significance of timing in relationships, stressing that women seek different qualities at various stages of their lives. Instead of trying to force a connection or chemistry, it is essential to focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Authenticity, self-awareness, and a strong sense of self-worth are pivotal in attracting the right partner who values you for who you genuinely are.

Embracing Your Unique Journey: Building a Rock-Solid Identity

By staying true to your core identity and purpose, you exude confidence and self-assurance that are highly desirable traits in a potential partner. The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love, continuous self-improvement, and unwavering commitment to your personal growth journey. When you fully embrace your authentic self, you radiate a magnetic energy that captivates the woman you desire.

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In conclusion, finding the woman who desires only you is a journey of self-discovery, authenticity, and unwavering self-worth. By investing in yourself, embracing your uniqueness, and staying true to your core values, you create a magnetic presence that attracts genuine connection. Remember, true love blossoms when you are authentically yourself, unapologetically embracing your individuality.

This video serves as a guiding light for those seeking meaningful relationships based on mutual respect, admiration, and genuine connection. Joining a community of like-minded individuals can further empower you on your quest for personal growth and fulfilling relationships. Isn't it time to embark on a journey of self-discovery and attract the woman you truly desire?