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all right I'm kind of making this video
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outside today I thought it would be a
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nice change I titled it how to get the
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woman that you want to desire only you
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and nobody else I think that that's a
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really powerful title how to get the
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woman that you want to desire you and
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nobody else because that's really what
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most guys want um most guys want the
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woman that they want to also desire
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them and I'm I'm going to give you the
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most elaborate in-depth answer that
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anybody can give you the whole morning I
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drafted this marker board specifically
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for you I did this for you I did this so
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you can get ahead in life and those of
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you who are waiting and willing to stick
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to the end of the presentation you will
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be rewarded because you actually have a
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longer attention span so hear me out
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this is going to help impact your life
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at the deepest level so there is only
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one way okay there's only one way to do
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this there's only one way to master this
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there's only one way to get ahead and
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I'm about to show you okay there is only
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one way what you need to do is you need
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to find a woman who likes you and Ador
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you at a core level what's a core level
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that means just who you are your
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identity how you show up in this world
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who you are at your core she likes you
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and she adores you on a core level well
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what does that
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mean meaning who you are as a man you
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just do it for her without even trying
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just your natural presence you just do
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it for her there's something about you
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she will be around you and you will
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notice she naturally will just want to
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be by your side she will naturally want
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to start kissing you she will naturally
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want to start talking to you she will
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just sit right beside you and she's very
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happy just because you are right by her
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that's the type of woman that you need
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to find is one who just likes you okay
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meaning who you are as a man you just do
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it for her without even trying so that
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means your presence your purpose and
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your masculine energy what is happening
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that means everything is in a perfect
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flow and Harmony because she likes you
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for you this right here is a statement
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that not a lot of guys like to hear
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because this is a cliche saying that a
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lot of times can lead you into a bad
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relationship because of bad false
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beliefs but let me explain I'm going to
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clear all this up when you operate like
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this okay your presence your purpose and
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your masculine energy and everything is
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in a perfect flow and a perfect harmony
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she likes you for you at your core
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meaning who you are meaning you do not
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have to put on a false act you do not
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have to put on a false Persona she likes
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you at your core level now this is very
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different from the cliche saying oh I
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just want to find a woman who likes me
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for me the reason why this cliche saying
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gets a bad reputation a lot of times the
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saying of oh I just want to find a woman
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who likes me for me is because it
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assumes this dynamic that a man can
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basically just show up in virtually no
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areas in his life essentially be lazy
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and still hope to achieve some kind of
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Desire if you want the woman okay that
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you want to also like you you are going
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to have to know who you are on a core
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level okay and that's going to probably
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take years of development because it
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takes time to become a man so this is
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what I want you to do okay I want you to
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spend as close to 100% of your time on
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on yourself as possible I'm going to say
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that one more time spend as close to
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100% of your time on yourself as
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possible and only you you spend as close
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to 100% of your time as you can on only
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you so that way over the course of the
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next 5 to 10 years you become very hard
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to replace okay because of who you
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became you need to become a man who's
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very hard to replace and here's what
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happens when you do this you are going
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to start to see
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that on a core level there is only one
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of you okay you are unique there is
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literally only one of you even me Casey
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Xander there is only one of me there is
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no replica I am unique okay there is
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only one of you you are unique that
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means you will see that you will have
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your own unique personality you will
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have your own unique Aura and you will
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have your own unique Vibe and lifestyle
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that you've created Because of Who You
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Are I need you to spend the next five to
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10 years understanding who you are
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developing who you are so that way
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you're very hard to replace so then when
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you meet the woman that you meet this is
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what most men have to understand she
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either likes you or she doesn't when I
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meet a woman she is going to either like
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won't the more you try to focus on oh
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was this sentence correct did I do this
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correct was that correct you're missing
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the whole point a woman falls in love
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with the man at his core his core level
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his core identity of who he is then when
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you meet the woman she either likes you
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or she doesn't well what does that mean
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that means when you meet a woman the
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ones who really like you they like you
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on a core level because you're not
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putting on a front you're not putting on
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an act you're not putting on a Persona
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so moving your attention to this column
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what you have to understand is that
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women want different things out of their
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relationships at different points in
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their life and this is something that is
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out of your control she is going to want
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who she wants which means you need to
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spend as close to 100% of your time as
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possible becoming who you need to be
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okay timing is everything women want
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different things at different points in
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their life so never ever ever ever ever
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under any circumstances ever try to
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create chemistry never try to create
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chemistry that isn't there never try to
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create something out of a situation when
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you can tell she doesn't have interest
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don't try to do this because you are
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going to look like you don't have
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options and you don't know who you are
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women will choose the man who best fits
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what they want at that time in their
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life women will choose the man who best
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fits what they want at that time and
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here's what you have to know women's
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emotions also change when I say timing
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is everything that means when you meet
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her either there will be alignment or
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there isn't and if there isn't that's
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okay because if you've spent the past 5
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to 10 years becoming who you want to be
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okay and this is independent of
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Attraction this is independent of a
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relationship this is independent of
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anything that has to do with dating
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women this is just spending the 5 to 10
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years becoming who you would like to be
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so you look in the mirror and you like
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yourself and you like who you've became
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and you like who you are timing is
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everything and when you meet that woman
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she either likes who you are and you
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represent that masculine ideal that she
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is looking for or you don't and that's
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okay so tactics won't work okay you
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either represent the masculine ideal
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that she's looking for at that time in
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her life or you won't and that's okay
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here's what I can tell you you cannot
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control timing okay you cannot control
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timing instead all you can control is
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where you put your time as a man each
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day as you develop who you are and who
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you want to be what I'm trying to get
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you to do in this video is understand
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who you are at a core level be okay with
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who you are at a core level and spend as
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close to 100% of your time as you can
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developing yourself on that core poor
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level because that is who you are called
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to be if you have done all these things
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as a man that I've just described okay
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if you've done all these things as a man
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that I have just described okay your
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attitude will start to become this right
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here your attitude will start to become
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okay you are going to have to earn me
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you're going to have to earn me this is
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something that not a lot of women often
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times do because most men are so ready
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and willing to not only commit they're
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ready and willing to have someone in
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their life because they don't have a
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life that's amazing as is without
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anybody in it okay so once you start to
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develop like this your attitude needs to
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start to shift into okay you're going to
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have to earn me but I don't even
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necessarily know if I want to say it
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needs to be okay that your attitude is
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basically okay you're going to have to
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earn me I think it will just naturally
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happen you will naturally see that you
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will operate differently because of who
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you are okay so you will never get to
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this point in life with this attitude
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that basically says you need to earn me
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unless you have been putting in the work
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to develop your internal sense of
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selfworth and here's the thing your
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internal sense of self-worth is going to
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look very different from mine and that's
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okay see that is part of being unique
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what I have done in my life is I have
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obviously pursued Fitness I have
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obviously pursued building this channel
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I have obviously pursued speaking and I
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have obviously pursued
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who I am in my life on a core level your
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life is probably going to look
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completely different than mine and
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that's okay where your interests are is
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where you need to put your time because
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that's where you're going to shine and
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that's where you're going to develop
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every day your mind and body knows if
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you have been maximizing yourself or if
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you have been lazy I will say that one
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more time every day your mind and your
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body will know if you have been
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maximizing yourself or if you have
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became lazy you do not want to be lazy
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you want to be active and in motion this
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is how you represent the masculine ideal
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active in motion
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doing you are doing something you are
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building what that means is you got to
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get to the point where you look in the
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mirror and love what you see and you
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love who you are okay so the final point
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I'm going to make is this you know who
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you are and what your god-given purpose
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is and you do not ever change that or
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try to be someone that you're not this
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is the whole point when you live this
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way you get to a point in life where you
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know who you are you know where you're
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going you know what your god-given
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purpose is and you do not change that or
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try to be someone that you're not that
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is the type of man that she wants to see
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a man with a rock solid core identity
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now she goes wow look at that I can't
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change him wow look at that he knows
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himself wow look at that he knows where
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he's going in life okay he must be
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stronger than the rest of the men who
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instantly are ready and willing to
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change just to be with me this is what
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she sees so your lack of effort to build
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the relationship and maximum effort to
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build you allows her to desire to build
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the relationship in the first place and
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this is what most men don't understand
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the timing is either there or it's not
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this is how to get the woman that you
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want to desire only you and nobody else
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if you like this video I encourage you
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to do one thing and one thing only you
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need a community of men who think the
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same way you need a community of men who
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are not only learning understanding and
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mastering the language of women but you
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want to be surrounded by like-minded
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individuals who also have purpose and
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direction in their life and are growing
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every single day what I have created was
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my very own community and inside of this
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community I'm watching these guys grow
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in so many different areas in their life
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almost every single day I'm constant
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seeing new posts and on top of that what
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I'm actually looking at is I'm looking
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at guys who are supporting each other
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and I know deep down that I have built
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something that gives you the ability to
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not only maximize your dating life but
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it gives you the best chances of having
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a rock solid process that you can
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actually copy paste into your dating
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life and go go and use it I created all
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of this for you when you check that out
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you're going to see so many other guys
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getting results too so be sure to join
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us inside of that because my hopes is is
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when you come into that process that I
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created it changes your life on so many
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different positive levels that you're
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actually looking for that is why I made
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that Community hit the like button
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comment and subscribe and we'll see you
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